Fail to fail is the reason behind your unsuccess  

If you are trying to put your mark on the world, you have to deal with failures a lot because it’s not easy, if putting your mark on the world is an easy task then everybody would do it but its not. Every time you face failure you have to stand up and get ready for the next failure because that’s how you learn new things that’s how you improve yourself learning from your failures but all of this would not happen if you don’t try and not rigid enough to deal with failures you probably could not make that mark at any level.

Fail to fail is the reason: Take anyone’s example!

“Making your mark on the world is hard. If it were easy, everybody would do it. But it’s not. It takes patience, it takes commitment, and it comes with plenty of failures along the way. The real test is not whether you avoid this failure because you won’t. It’s whether you let it harden or shame you into inaction, or whether you learn from it; whether you choose to persevere.” (Barack Obama)

Let us take a look at some of the greatest examples of great failures that we have had in history. do you know that; Albert Einstein’s Ph.D. dissertation was rejected; Henry Ford had two bankruptcies before his famous success; Ulysses S. Grant was working as a handyman, written off as a failure, eight years before becoming President of the United States?

Fail to fail is the reason! Just imagine if these personalities considered themselves as a failure just facing failure once then we would never know who was Albert Einstein, or who was Henry Ford. When we see such examples, we learn that nothing is impossible and that it is only a matter of staying in the game and continue putting in the required effort.

In a great saying, Terry Paulson states, ‘Winners lose more than losers. They win and lose more than losers because they stay in the game. “

Each and every failure that we face and go through makes us stronger, rigid and ready for a bigger challenge. Probably we all have heard when it is said: “Anything that doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.” So failing in life does not make us a failure, it teaches us new lessons every time, it gives us new strength to face the tougher challenges and prepares us to face the tougher parts of life that will come ahead.

If we got it all easy and we had a smooth go through life, we will not succeed even in the easiest of challenges in life because we would have not faced hardships and we would have not become strong enough to face the difficulties and traumas of life. That is when one would realize how important a role each and every small and big temporary failure plays a part in our lives. These failures are just hitches that give us an opportunity to slow down, think, focus, plan and make sure that we maintain our movement in the right direction focusing on our goals. 

Keeping in mind the above mentioned we should not be afraid of facing failure and to fail. Failure is one of the most important ways that can teach us how to face difficulties and help us succeed in each and every walk of life. It should be seen as an opportunity to learn, to improve and to make better ourselves to improve ourselves. At the same time, we should make sure that none of our failures go to waste and that where we put the experience gained from it to good use for future failures, circumstances, and situations.

Failure should always be used as a stepping stone to success and the first attempt in learning (FAIL). It is important that we stick to the task and keep trying until we eventually succeed. This is the difference between successful failures and over failures and the ones who do not fail anything because they never tried. Just keep trying until you succeed. As it has been popularly quoted, “You haven’t failed until you have stopped trying.” 

“If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down, but the staying down.” (Mary Pickford)